What makes a person who seems to have it all, but would feel like they’re empty at times? We see it all the time in film stars, pop idols, and in our homes. Some call it middle life crisis. Normally, it is a feeling of emptiness. God who created us knows us inside out. The feeling of emptiness starts at an early stage, as children. When children feel it, they try to fill it with game activities. So, they play and laugh a lot.
When we get older we examine ourselves even more. Thus, we try to fill our lives with more activities. We realise that we need a marriage, children, a job, and money, of course. Once we acquire a piece of this and that, for some reason we still feel unsatisfied. We thought the marriage which started with lots of love, for some reason, it becomes a struggle. That’s why every married person comes to a point and says, marriage is difficult. Why? Because dealing with an imperfect person is not easy. And when it comes to raising our children, because of their imperfections, obviously a parent would struggle sometimes.
And when it comes to our jobs, we end up dealing with imperfect people, and that’s becomes a struggle, too. And when it comes to money and so many other things, as King Solomon said, it is like chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 1:17. It comes and goes. So, when it comes to those who have lots of it, they get sucked into it and it becomes a trap. Once it becomes a trap, the more they become addicted to it. And with addiction there comes all kinds of stress to the rich, as well as the poor. Solomon was the richest man in the world, he went after he wanted, at some point he called it madness. This is someone who knew God, and his wisdom, and then he messed up big time. After a while he examined his life, the negatives and the positives, sometimes he lost it, and he then realised that nothing surpasses God’s wisdom and plan.
It is funny how sometimes we lose interest in things quickly. I remember going to a friend’s party. She decided to have it in one of those posh hotels. Well, one of those expensive ones in London. So, out of her good heart she invited a group of Christians. It was good, because we wanted to have fun, as well as, loving the Lord. When I got in that hotel I was overwhelmed by its interior beauty – golden taps, marble floors, and beautiful carpets. I thought this was a place to be. We danced and had a good time. After the party I kept on thinking about the hotel. The more I thought about it, the more I talked about it to my friends. When I decided to go back again, I took a friend with me, but for some reason, I didn’t have that wow feeling I had before. Why? I got used to it, which is so much in our human nature.
God Almighty made the heart to be the centre of our being. The physical one, as you know, controls our whole body. But the spiritual one is also crucial, and this is where we feel the emptiness.
Jesus said, ‘in me you’ll have life. I am the bread of life’. John 6:33-40. You have to remember Jesus like God Almighty knew a human being in detail. God knows whatever we do or run after, nothing, I say it again, nothing will ever fulfil as Jesus does. When a person has Jesus in their hearts and obey what he says they have life to the full. He said, ‘I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full’. John 10:10